Masturbating with a condom is a fun and different way to reach orgasm. Plus, it’s a great way to try out different lubes before you use them for penetrative sex.
It’s also a great way to practice safe masturbation, especially if you don’t want to risk pregnancy or STIs.
1. Put a little bit of lube on the inside of the condom
It’s not a secret that using condoms can be a bit of a faff. They can make erections weaken before you can even get them on and they can feel less sensational than unprotected sex. Luckily, there are lots of practical tips to help you use condoms more effectively.
To start with, a little extra lube can go a long way. Smear a little on the tip of the condom before you put it on – not too much, just enough to reduce the risk of it ripping during stroke fest. You can also apply lube directly to the penis/anus or vagina if you want a little more extra sensation. Just make sure the lube you’re using is water-based, not oil-based, as oil-based lubes can degrade latex.
Some people find that masturbating with a condom makes it easier to keep an erection. Putting the condom on is a two-handed job, so ask your partner for some help. They can squeeze the tip or they can use their hand to roll it down the shaft – both will make it more fun and more likely to stay on.
The other thing that can help with keeping an erection while you masturbate is to have your partner press the condom down on the penis while you suck on it. The friction and movement of your partner’s finger against the condom can be really sensual.
2. Put the penis in the condom
Masturbating with a condom can feel more like partnered sex than just rubbing the anal area. This can make it more fun and increase orgasms for both partners. If you’re not comfortable putting on the condom, your partner can do it for you (but be careful that they don’t use their teeth, which could crack latex). This also works well as foreplay and can be very sensual.
To get the most from masturbating with a condom, try to pinch out any air in the condom before putting it on. This will give the condom plenty of room for semen to collect and prevent it from stretching too tightly over the penis.
If you’re not used to using condoms, you might find it easier to do so if you put a little bit of lube on the inside before putting it on. This makes it much more slippery, increasing friction and movement for a more intense sensation. Just make sure it’s water-based, as oil-based lube can split latex condoms (1).
It’s also worth trying different condom sizes and textures. Experimenting without the risk of a mishap means you can work out which ones fit best for you. You can also try ribbed or studded condoms, which may feel more exciting or last longer than standard ones.
3. Put the condom on yourself
When masturbating alone, a condom can add a whole new sensation. Using a condom is also safer than unprotected sex, since it can help prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like herpes and genital warts. Plus, it’s a good way to get started with masturbation if you and your partner are new to each other or if you have an aversion to penetrative play.
Masturbating with a condom can be weird at first, but it gets easier with practice. If you’re new to condoms or just masturbating alone, start by making sure your condom is clean and lubed up before putting it on. Try a variety of different lubes, including some with extra features like warming, tingling, or numbing.
Once you’ve figured out the best lube for your needs, put the condom on yourself. The closed end with a thicker ring goes inside your vagina and the open end with a thinner ring sits on the outside. The lube will keep the condom from ripping when you stroke it or insert your penis.
Some men struggle with cumming too quickly when using condoms, which shortens their pleasure time and can make it hard to reach orgasm. If this is the case for you, try applying a little lube to the tip of your penis before putting on your condom. It will lubricate the condom and your own penis, which can help you stay hard longer.
4. Put the penis in the condom on your partner
One of the best ways to reach orgasm while wearing a condom is to start masturbating while it’s on. This will get you used to the sensation and make it feel more natural when you are actually with a partner.
It’s a good idea to practice this before you do it in a real situation so that you can do it quickly and easily. It’s also a good way to prepare for sex with your partner so that you can both be confident that you’re using a condom properly.
To put the condom on, first pinch the tip between your thumb and forefinger to make sure that it’s rolled up correctly (you can unroll the condom a little bit to check). Once you have it in place, gently push it down the head of the penis. Make sure that it covers the whole shaft of the penis, from the top to the base. This will help to keep out air bubbles that can cause the condom to break. It will also leave a space for the semen to collect in.
It’s also a good idea to take care not to rip the condom when you open it, especially if you are a bit excited. This can split latex condoms. There are lots of tips on how to use a condom that will make it easier and more comfortable, and if you follow them carefully you can be sure you’re protecting yourself from pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.
