The anal canal is a delicate area that can be easily irritated or torn. So, it’s important to start slowly and with lots of lube.
Luckily, most butt plugs are designed to make insertion and removal easy. They have a wide end that fits into the anus and a flared base to prevent the plug from getting sucked in.
The anatomy
While a butt plug can feel awesome, it’s not something to be abused. The anal canal is incredibly delicate, and can be prone to microtears (like those that happen when you poop). If a toy is lodged up there, it’s a good idea to call your healthcare provider for advice, as they can use a speculum and ring forceps to pull it out. It’s best to avoid attempting to reach up there with your fingers, however, as that can cause more irritation and potentially push the toy further up into the digestive tract, where it may need to be surgically removed.
The sphincter muscle around the anus can be quite tight, and a butt plug can create sensations of pressure and fullness that can be orgasmic. It’s important to lube up the area and use external stimulation, such as a sex toy or manual stimulation, while a butt plug is being inserted.
Some manufacturers produce plugs that can be inserted with a clitoral hood. This can make it easier to reach up there, but it’s a good idea to practice with a partner first so you can get a feel for how to maneuver. Once you’ve gotten the hang of reaching up there, you can experiment with different angles and textures and even move it up and down a bit to feel how it responds.
The position
Butt plugs can reach erogenous zones that are normally hard to access, especially for men. They can also be used for penetration play, and some people enjoy them as a prelude to anal sex, says sex educator Alicia Sinclaire, CEO of the butt-centric plug maker b-Vibe.
It’s best to use a lubricated toy to avoid anal micro-abrasions, which can increase pain and allow bacteria into the anus, she adds. Start with something smaller than the plug, such as a finger (if you want to avoid spreading bacteria, be sure to wear latex or nitrile gloves). Add lube and gently insert your finger until it feels comfortable.
Experiment with different positions to find what’s most comfortable for you. Some people like to sit or squat, others prefer to stand with one leg on something sturdy. Make sure you’re relaxed, and try to keep your sphincter open. Sudden movements can shock the anal sphincter and cause it to tighten.
Once you’re comfortable with a plug, it can be inserted and removed easily. When removing it, make sure you’re wearing something comfy, and be prepared for a messy exit (though this is less common with butt plugs than with other types of vaginal toys). Unless the toy has a stopper that prevents it from falling out, you should have no problem reaching up there with your hand – though, again, be careful, and remember that your anus was designed to push things out, not pull them in!
The lube
When it comes to anal plugs, the right amount of lubrication is essential. This is because, unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating. Therefore, it is important to lubricate both the plug and the anal entrance before inserting. There are a number of anal lubricants available, and they can often be found in sex toys stores.
It is also a good idea to preheat the plug before insertion, as this can help relax the sphincter muscles and make the experience more comfortable. Finally, it is a good idea to take your time when inserting the plug as sudden movements can shock the anal sphincter and cause pain.
After the anal plug has been inserted, there are a number of ways in which it can be used for stimulation. For example, it can be rubbed against the skin or dipped in lubricant. It can also be positioned and moved around to explore its different textures. In addition, anal plugs can be used for oral sex and manual stimulation. Those who are into BDSM can even try receiving a spanking with their butt plugs.
As with all sex toys, it is essential to thoroughly clean the butt plug after each use. This can be done using soap and water or a dedicated sex toy cleaner. In addition, it is recommended to allow the plug to rest in baking soda for a few hours before using again (this helps to remove any odors). Finally, a person should always wash their hands well after handling their anal plug to ensure they are not introducing germs to the genital area.
The removal
Using an anal plug can be a lot of fun, whether you want to use it for anal sex, manual stimulation, or as a way to get more comfortable with backdoor sensations. But the key to success is to take things slow and easy.
It is a good idea to start by lubing up your anus and the plug, as well as your hands. This will make insertion less jarring. Start by pressing gently and gradually increasing pressure. If you feel pain, it’s important to stop. It may mean you need more lube, a different angle, or a smaller plug.
A quick anatomy lesson: your anal canal doesn’t just end at your anus; it goes right on up into your colon. That means it is possible to get a foreign object stuck up there (which could do serious damage). This is why it’s crucial to only use butt plugs that have a flared base that will prevent them from passing through the internal sphincter.
Once your anus and hands are accustomed to working together, it can be fun to try more intense stimulation with the plug. For example, one popular model has little weights inside that shift around slightly when you turn it on, resulting in a sensation that is halfway between vibration and thrusting. Some people also find a ring on the tip of the plug to be pleasing, as it provides a bit of extra resistance.
